Please don't laugh when I tell you this, but I'm having lunch alone at Starbucks today. Alone! I never, ever, EVER have gone to a restaurant alone. I always thought I would be completely self-conscious to eat alone, thinking everyone else who came to eat in pairs would be looking at me.
I guess that's a little egotistical, huh?
I've been wanting to come here ever since I got my laptop, and that was over a year ago. Whoa, I guess it's about time. The reason it worked out today is because I'm waiting to meet a friend who had a lunch appointment and is meeting me afterwards. I didn't want to drive home just to eat lunch and meet up later, so I thought, Hey! This is a great day to go grab a sandwich at Starbucks and write away at your blog, girl.
And so I agreed to the little voice in my head.
So as I sit here at my table, typing away at my laptop, I am okay. Very much okay. Nobody is staring. {Not that I've noticed, but I've been pretty much looking at my sandwich, iced tea, and computer screen.}
Finally, another bridge crossed. A victory in getting out of that old comfort zone. I think I'll be doing this again.
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:) I have felt the same way! Finally last year I wanted Chick-fil-a and decided to go in and eat....it was an interesting experience...a little uncomfortable but in the end enjoyable :)
ReplyDeleteGlad you too the plunge!
Have a fabulous weekend!
I'm glad you did it...it's actually one of my favorite things to do (though not at Starbucks)! I don't tend to do it on "my" side of town, though; I guess I don't want to get caught. But it's something I do at lunch (I work in a different part of town) or when I'm out of town for work, and greatly enjoy it. I just love reading and eating, and getting to do them both together (while getting to people watch, too!) is great.
ReplyDeleteGood for you! I still feel uncomfortable eating alone - but that's where a good book (or the laptop!) come in handy!
ReplyDelete@crittyjoy, @Ronnica, @Andrea: Now I don't feel so badly. I thought it was just me that didn't like to go in alone. I'm not so quirky after all. =) I'll be different one of these days.
ReplyDeleteStarbucks is the best place to have lunch alone!! Plus, you're never alone with your laptop there.
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~Tabitha~
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Hi Liz,
ReplyDeleteIf they look, look back!
Way to go, brave Liz! I love to eat alone. I guess it is just the introvert in me! (Plus there are often single fellas eating alone that I am tempted to start conversations with but never get up the nerve to do!)
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